How sissy learns to love the taste of cum

Most sissies want to service a cock and learn to take it in their precious little sissy pussy. They also have a need to taste, or even eat, the cum. Of course, like anything else in life, this requires training.

Mostly eating cum is about erotic humiliation which is the best kind of humiliation. Read more about it here if you feel so inclined.

This involves a certain amount of finesse and a lot of work on the Mistress.

A few notes for the Mistress.

An orgasm will kill all erotic feelings that your sissy has

This is why chastity play is so incredibly important. It keeps them extremely submissive and allows you to do whatever you want to them. Once you let out that cum, when paired with an orgasm, then you lose all that work that you've done. What you want to do is to remove the orgasm from the milking but that is more difficult but can be one.

Once an orgasm has occurred your little sissy will lose all interest in the game. They'll be thinking clearer now and they'll be embarrassed to be in drag, or servicing you or what have you. Fantasies be gone.

Milking

To get the cum out milk your sissy through the prostate or give a ruined orgasm. Prostate milking is best as they will not feel even the slightest pleasure. Think of it as a male hack. This is outside of the scope of this article but I will post more on it later when, hopefully the time comes, that I learn more about it from experience and not just reading/researching about it.

How to

I'm sorry that it took me so long to get to the crux of the article.

There is a short and cruel way and there is the way that takes finesse and is more of a game. I prefer the second way but lets discuss them both in sequence.

Short/Cruel Way

This is the way that I do not recommend but is the fantasy of most sissies. I feel it is best to build up to it and then you can do the short cruel way more often as it's a very humiliating act.

You have had a scene, lets say it was about an hour long, and you have teased and denied your little submissive to the point of explosion. You've, at some point, gathered that he wants to eat cum either his own or someone else's and you've decided that right now is the time w/o any milking or buildup. 

You tell your submissive that you plan to make him eat his cum. Knowing that in the heat of the moment any male will agree to anything to get that orgasm he says yes. You keep coaxing him while you stroke him (riding him is a great way to do it as well).

You let him cum.

You wait for him to come back to reality and the last of his orgasm is over (takes but a moment).

You collect his expenditure (condom, in your hand, cum etc).

Make sure that he makes eye contact with you.

Make him eat it.

My god, at this point, he will NOT want to do it. There is no erotic energy going through him, he spent it in his orgasm, and he will fight.

If you get him to do it then fantastic. You've throughly humiliated him, maybe in a fierce and mean way, and it will take him a moment to get back to his normal self. 

Nuanced Way

This requires the use of chastity. As a matter of fact if you aren't using chastity with your sissy you should reconsider it. I have a post about the benefits of chastity and why you should use it with your sissy here (link incoming).

In order to achieve this goal there are a few simple rules that you want to follow.

1. Do not let your slave out of chastity.
2. Tease and denial to keep his sexual energy up.
3. Make sure that they taste so that they learn the flavor so that they can work up to it
4. Cross dress

Unfortunately, most men have a feeling that only women or homosexual men should be allowed to eat cum or even taste it. Regardless of your views this male will be much more comfortable doing his when dressed as a female. Use this to your advantage.

Normally, in instances where you want to rush to the conclusion, I would suggest at minimum five days with a maximum of two weeks. Three days is the lower limit because that is when most men will build up the erotic energy necessary to get them to be as submissive as possible. That effect that gets them back to their courting days when all they wanted to do was please you.  

Three days w/o release, and possibly with a lot of teasing, may be enough but I would suggest at least five days just to be safe and sure that they are where they should be: a whimpering, simpering submissive. Two weeks is fool proof and may be a little cruel for some couples but at that point you know for sure that they will be "there".

In this nuanced section I'll be describing a 12 day plan. The reason I like the 12 day plan is so that you can enjoy the building up of the experience. You only get to fully experience this with someone once, unless, of course, you are a professional and do this to multiple submissives, so it is better to savor the experience and build up to the conclusion slowly. The simmering, like in tease and denial, is the fun part. It's not always the orgasm that's best (the end) it's the building up to the orgasm that makes the orgasm so much better. So in this 12 day plan you'll build up the tension, for the event that that know is coming (cumming if I wanted to be so crude; I guess I did want to be so crude) you'll get to feel it all slowly, delicately, delightfully as you make it to the finish line.

Essentially this plan breaks down into four three day segments. Every three days your submissive will have a plain-jane orgasm. Each time building up your submissive's sexual energy.

3 Days in

Three days isn't enough time for your submissive to simmer or boil over, under normal circumstances, unless your sissy transforms faster than others, so in order to make sure that they are constantly where you need them to be you'll have to mercilessly tease and deny your submissive. You know everything that they like, or should, or they have told you, and you should be using all of that information to your advantage. If they like bondage, whippings, strip teases, you with other men/women et al make sure to do these things.

At this point tease and deny your submissive every day and night. If you can manage it tease them in the afternoon as well. Getting them to SMS you a picture of them in chastity is a great way to play the game while they're at work. To tease them when you're with them try using your mouth near or around their chastity or play with them anally. Let them watch you masturbate or play with anal toys. Have them pleasure you orally. Whatever it takes to get their penis to try to force it's way out of it's cage is what you should be doing.

You may not even begin playing the sissy maid game/lifestyle.

All this teasing is going to have your submissive's little clitty drip little bits of pre-cum. Lets consider this the "appetizer".

Your sissy/submissive will be dripping a lot every day and not just from every teasing. Their discharge will not be voluntary. There is just something about male chastity cages that makes men do this. If it happens at night then you don't need to worry about any nocturnal emissions but if it happens during the day then make sure to check their cage for any fluids. If you make them wear panties or a condom over the cage all the better. It keeps things clean and keeps your sissy from being sticky-icky all over. I promise you that it's easier to do our work if we aren't concentrating on keeping our thighs from touching because our fluids are making them stick. 

Now, what to do with their daily emissions?

Take that pre-cum and rub your finger in it. Get them to come closer and rub it in their gums and on their tongue. This is to get them to get used to the salty taste. Have them use their tongue to get it off their gums. Not only will this be lightly comical to you it should be slightly humiliating and, hopefully disgusting to them.

Do this as often as possible. Preferably after all teasing sessions and any time you see that it's dripping. Check their panties (or underwear if they're still wearing underwear) and see if there is anything in there. You are trying to get them more and more used to the taste w/o taking a full load.

6 Days in

So the first three days have finished. Now for the fun part for your sissy: making them orgasm. If they are in a cage then it's preferable that they don't come out of it. If there is one thing that you want is for them to never come out of their cage for anything other than the very important (ruined orgasms, tattoos, doctor appointment, flying et al). This instills the feeling of being enslaved or being caged. Like a lion that mates with a lioness at a zoo. Their pleasures and needs are for the viewing pleasure of everyone else knowing that they have no freedom. You always want them to associate that cage, that prison, with everything that they do.

This means that they will cum in their penis prison. The fastest and easiest way to do this is with a vibrator but first a bit of warning. You both will know that they can orgasm with a vibrator. Make sure to lock up all your vibrating toys so that they don't get off while you're out. When they become engulfed in sexual energy all they'll want to do, even if they don't want to, and I promise you that they or I will regret it right after, will still use it. Put a small padlock on the electrical prong if needed. Then it can't be locked in.

Collect the "drippings" from their orgasm. This cum will be the first bit that we'll keep. Put it in something, like an ice cube tray, and freeze it.

Make sure to have them eat their pre cum but not this first load. This one we wait for them to have later.

Since they've had an orgasm you must understand that their submissiveness, from their chastity, is now gone. All that magic that has been built up is "magically" gone which is unfortunate but not something that cannot be overcome.

Just go back to the tease and denial regimen from before. As a matter of fact that regimen is what you'll need to do every time your submissive has an orgasm. Tease as often as possible and make them taste their pre-cum.

9 Days in

They get another orgasm! Yippie!

We all know that this is just temporary right? They may not but their orgasms will become fewer and fewer per year. 4 a year seems fair by most accounts from blogs that I've read from mistresses around the blog-o-sphere. I felt ashamed to write that. I'm sorry.

Anyway, before they have their orgasm you need to get that iced cum cube. Tell them that they'll be sucking on this iced cum cube (ICC) while you vibrate them to orgasm. they aren't allowed to chew it and swallow it to get it down faster. They need to savor it. They need to relish it. They need to feel that humiliation. Do this however you want but I suggest to not let them out of their penis prison. I would also suggest to plug or peg them while you do this because there will be an enormous amount of pleasure doing all this together that eventually they'll associate eating semen with orgasms and/or anal pleasure.

Do not let them cum until they've sucked the ICC down then they can have their orgasm. When they have their orgasm make sure to save it as you did before. Make your, possibly, last ICC out of it.

Now you're back to square one with your submissive. Back to teasing them until they are back to that peak sexual energy. I hope this isn't a chore for you as it should be a ton of fun for you both.

12 Days in

This is the last set so lets make it count. You'll do a very intense tease and denial scene. Essentially what you want to do is spend a lot of time in T&D so that they will do whatever it is that you want. Make them want to eat their cum. Make them beg to eat the ICC. 

So let them.

Let your submissive have their ICC but keep teasing them. This may be a good time to actually take off the cage so that your teasing can become increasingly effective (perhaps doing it via a hand job with a lot of lube). This is so that they can get as much sensation as possible. Once they've they've finished their ICC treat wait about 10 more min, if you can, but don't stop teasing. While you're doing this they shouldn't have cum in 3 days so make sure that you keep telling them that you expect them to eat their cum. Your submissive should be "eager" to eat it. They should be saying anything just to have you let them cum

Then let them erupt.

Then make them eat their cum.

Feed it to them slowly or quickly or via spoon. Either way make them eat the hot version this time. Lock them back up and perhaps make them eat it again doing it a different way. Prostate massage is the Domme standard.

From here on out

You don't want to let them orgasm as frequently but instead you'll want to milk them. Once you milk them you make them eat whatever they cum up with (that pun was so heavy handed I couldn't help but use it).

The best way to do this is to force them into a position that makes milking easy for you. They should be on their hands and knees (preferably in a dedicated room with dedicated milking furniture) and massage their prostate. Have something ready to collect their drippings be it a condom that is attached to their chastity cage (remember, there is little reason to ever remove it) or a cup under neath. The condom makes it easy as it will catch it no matter how it's attached and there is no worry about shots fired in unexpected directions.

Once they have been milked, sans orgasm, make them drink their cum. This humiliation is bar none while keeping their sexual energy at it's zenith.

Advanced options

As you train feel free to mix it up and do other more advanced activities when making them eat their cum. There are literally an infinite way to feed him his [or someone else's] cum but here are some simple ones off the top of my head.

• Put it on a realistic dildo and make them suck it off of there.
• Pour it over your genitals (be wary of this that it doesn't go inside) and make him eat it off of there. This one is crucial to cuckold training.
• Pour it on your feet and have him suck your feet clean. If you're sticky from the cum make sure that he feels his mistake all over his body.
• Save it for later in more cum cubes.
• Make him eat his food with it on it. Preferably over his favorite dish. Have him associate the pleasure of his favorite food with cum on it.
• Peg your sissy while you make him eat it out of a dog bowl or off the floor.
• Prostate milk your sissy, collect the cum, have them hold but not swallow the cum and tease their clitty out of it's cage. Using lube is best for the strongest sensations. Do not allow them to orgasm and if you can ruin the orgasm then do a post orgasm torture (keep rubbing). Then either
• Allow them to swallow
• Spit it onto the floor and then lick it up

After

Once you have your sissy eating cum then you have a whole world of options with her. Make her a sissy maid sex slave, a sissy maid bondage slut, a sissy maid sex slut, furniture et al. 

Remember, this is not something that you stop doing. Every time your little sissy maid cums she must eat it and w/o exception. Even if you are in a public spot. Make her go into the mens bathroom and eat it. Keep her vigilant. Keep her slutty.

Notes

Make sure to remind him that he's eaten [his] cum sometime after the event to keep him in check. Perhaps a "Remember, I've gotten you to eat cum, perhaps I'll do it again. Maybe another man's cum". This will utterly humiliate him and depending on how masculine your submissive is (lets say that they are out of sissy drab) this could stop an argument mid sentence. It's a very powerful tool.

Until another time

*curtsey*