Saturday, January 18, 2014

Sissy challenge: Unlock & Orgasm

Here's a nasty little scene that you can try with your sissy that should give you a hour or more of enjoyment and laughter. It is preferable if you do this with an audience and on her milking/orgasm day.

Toys you'll need

  • Electro anal bulb
  • Sissy in chastity
  • A sussied up sissy (dress, corset, stockings, ballet shoes, makeup, wig)
  • Key in ice
  • Heat gun (preferably is constant on or use rubber bands)
  • Heat gun stand
  • Dead Man switch or Pressure switch
  • Oodles of rope
  • Electrical tape
  • Chastity key in ice

Some preparations

The preparations are simple. After you've hobbled your sissy into the play area you'll want to do a few things.
  • Frog tie her
  • Tie up her balls and take a long piece of rope and tie that to an anchor
  • Tape up her hands
  • Ice block with the key in the center. Hopefully it is 5 inches down.
  • Put the ice block under the stand with the heat gun there.
  • The heat gun should be plugged into the switch. It should be close enough to her so that she she reaches for it she'll pull on her balls.
  • The bulb goes into the sissy's ass and have the switch ready
  • Flesh light and mount

The Rules

The sissy has 1 hour to melt the ice block, get unlocked and have an orgasm. Sissy is not guaranteed an orgasm nor a pleasurable one. Sissy may be harassed, humiliated and of course tortured on her mini quest to get her orgasm. Per the usual sissy will clean up with her tongue afterwards and possibly service any other audience members if they so choose.

The game

It will be painful for the sissy to crawl/drag herself close enough to the switch to hit it. The closer she gets or the longer she hits the switch the more pain she should feel in her little sissy balls.

Every 1/10th of the ice that melts you get to move the switch 2 inches. By the time the key can be retrieved the switch should have been moved 10 inches and your little sissy should be in serious pain to hit the switch.

Since your little sissy's hands are taped up it is you that unlocks her chastity. Feel free to tease and make this take longer than it should.

The anal plug is not for her pleasure it's for you to switch the electricity on at random intervals for a length of time that you feel is most entertaining for yourself and possibly your audience.

Mistress may also decide to spank or prod her sissy while she is making her way to the key. For instance, taking off her ballet shoes to tickle her or pinching her nipples etc.

If sissy does get unlocked in time then sissy is allowed to fuck the mounted fleshlight while still in bondage. Either way Mistress may decide to do post orgasm torture if sissy finishes.

There you have it. Have fun and post any comments as to how I can put in more detail or modify the game.

Reference Images

This is a beautiful tie that you could use on your sissy.
The panel gag is perfection and her muffled cries from electric play would be, well, delightful.
A great tie to use but she should be on her tummy.
This may even be better than a frog tie. It's all up to you (Mistress) of course.

*curtsey*

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Recommended Annual Orgasms Chart

I simply couldn't help myself. I couldn't bear with the evilness, and short sightedness, of the original Recommended Annual Ejaculations Chart.

The things that I disliked so much about that chart was that it only expected ejaculations. Ejaculations do not an orgasm make. If you've played with tantric sex, and I'm specifically speaking to the men (former men also) you'll know that this is the case.

There is so much you can do with the semen too and it saddens me that this is put out there. I know it's most likely a fantasy, and maybe even created while in the heat of fantasy from being in chastity for so long, but I wouldn't use it even as a suggestion. It does give me some good ideas so I decided to create my own. Essentially there is is only one difference but it's major in abstract.


This is recommended orgasms per year. I much more prefer this one over the other one. Now you have the option of ruining orgasms to keep the erotic battery levels high. The ruined orgasm still gives them some pleasure, with most of it coming from you touching their penis, but they do not get enough. It's not complete. Their frustrating is yet even higher. Hint: Keep stroking to assert dominance and buckets of pain.

You also have the option to prostate milk your sissy. Milking them is such a good way to get the semen out and with skilled fingers they will not feel an micron of pleasure. They are so, incredibly, crazily horny and they derive no pleasure from the ejaculation  when they normally would. How hot is that? How humiliating is that? 

For many people, sissies like me included, chastity is a very big part of our humiliation and bondage that we oh so crave. Honestly, if you are a potential mistress or player of the game, you need to understand that this is sexy for many of us because of the humiliation aspect. You don't need to force us to wear the getup or get into chastity. The fact that you're willing to do it and help us break the chains of our normal routine and societal bonds is such a big show of love for us. We want, love, CRAVE this because it is absolutely and a complete 180% turn on everything that is is to be a traditional alpha male. All the things that is normally meant for men such as not showing emotions, not having anything attractive to wear, our fashions rarely changing but instead being updated, not being able to show our emotions, not being able to show love openly, not being able to submit to someone else and god forbid that master be a woman is a giant change for us. That change we crave is part of the humiliation. It eventually, and hopefully, grows on us and we become more open but just the fact that the humiliation aspect is there is important.

So, with that humiliation aspect somewhat, but I should go into greater detail in yet another blog post, you can see why doing even more with the semen is not only an enormous turn on but also should necessitate the excretion of the fluid but not include an orgasm.

I'm sorry I rambled and I'm sure that this is a lot to take in and I"m also very sure that I didn't make the greatest amount of sense. I just hope that I can separate the silly fantasy from real and rational play.

The greatest of luck <3

*curtsey*

Recommended annual ejaculations chart

I was on reddit as on one of the sub-reddits I found an interesting image. It's title is Recommended annual ejaculations chart:
This is somewhat fantastic. It means that, for myself, at the time of this writing, I would get 8 orgasms per year. I'm 33 years old with a 6 inch penis.

Clearly this is written for sissies, cuckolds and chastised men. Also, it's very ambiguous to what the ejaculation should be. I like the idea of milking for maintenance and ruined orgasms for that erotic energy up but if this means ejaculations then that would mean that these two activities constitute as ejaculations and that scares me. It also means that your sissy's balls would be enormous throughout the year. I think that would hurt and, in my opinion, may be very unfair to your little girl. It would be great fun for you.

So I think that the chart should be about orgasms and not ejaculations. If you limit it to just spilling seed then that really puts a divide between the mistress and the maid. Most maids are attached to a mistress that is their wife and having not intimacy between these two parties really saddens my heart. It goes from being a fun game to a clinical and professional relationship. This may be what you want but it is far from what I want from my Mistress. So 8 (preferably 6 or less) orgasms a year would be ideal. Ejaculations per years should be unlimited.

Seriously, if mistress ever decides to loan me out to as a maid or a sexy she-girl to another domme, dom or to a group to be fucked or to server (and thusly be fucked) I will be all dressed up and in chastity. When you don't get to cum from penile activity it is highly likely you can from anal activity. Though I'm not sure if it's an orgasm or just, yet another, prostate ejaculation. I don't think that should could.

Lastly, it doesn't say but I think that this chart is good for the first year of chastity. Then from there on out you cut out 1/3 of the orgasms. So in a few months for me I would suggest 6-4 orgasms per year instead of the 8. 

When it all is said and done it doesn't truly matter what I, a lowly sissy maid, thinks as it's the sissy's position, her whole existence is to serve so if her lady wants her to not ejaculate for more than 3 months then so be it.